Are you tired of beating around the bush, KUINI?
I’m tired kuini, how bout you? Have you ever had a loved one, consistently go out of their way to ignore your achievements, your hard work, and your #mahiaroha that you put your heart and soul into?
Have you ever had a loved one, expect the world from you whilst offering nothing back in return, showing you not one little bit of #aroha, as though you are some kind of robot with no feelings whatsoever?
Have you ever had someone in your life asking for constant encouragement, advice, and support, yet, never asking you a thing about how you are and what you’ve been up to?
What IS that kuini? What are they playing at? What is the point of it? What are they trying to achieve?
Have you ever had a loved one, shut down all communications with you and forbid you from speaking or communicating with them? Have you ever had a loved one slander, criticize and talk about you behind your back and in public, and then vilify you for your normal reaction to their stink treatment of you? What is that?
Have you ever had a loved one, send you deceptively neutral words, that have a distinctly un-neutral, negative ENERGY and FEELING behind them? Are you a person that can FEEL energy, like I can, regardless of outward appearances, masks, or how prettily something may be presented to you?
Why are some people so dishonest and in-direct? What is that?
Have you ever been left feeling bamboozled and confused by someones passive aggressive, indirect behavior towards you? What is that? What is the point of it? What is wrong with open and direct, straight up communication where people say what they mean and mean what they say?
Isn’t that the point of communication, to be understood? Why is that those of us who do communicate directly, end up being rejected and labelled as being ‘angry’ and ‘aggressive’ and ‘attacking’? WHAT IS THAT KUINI?
Fakeness and in-authentic behavior is so DRAINING on your energy isn’t it? I can’t even figure out what they are trying to achieve. How many times will we go round and round the mulberry bush, before we say enough is enough?
It doesn’t have to be that way, and I wish it wasn’t that way.
For some people, I would give the world on a silver platter. How bout you KUINI? Yet sometimes, some people just don’t seem able to hold that, to take it, to integrate and accept it. Rather than the world, all they can handle you giving them, is one little town (I am speaking metaphorically, as I always do, I am an artist after all), on one little island. What is that? A lack of self-love to the point where they can’t actually recognise real love when its in their face being offered to them REPEATEDLY?
Have you noticed how they seem to think that you’re offering them a shit sandwich instead of the world (or your loyalty/friendship/love/opportunity/whatever it is)? Perhaps thats what it comes down to, a lack of self-love. Maybe a lack of SELF-HONESTY. Or maybe speaking a different love language where something gets lost in translation. I’m tired of trying to figure it all out. How bout you kuini?
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